NEW YEAR’S GOALS: What are you Proud of From Last Year?

College applications for my senior got done! Phew!  Life’s pace went back to a rhythm.

Fast forward to now.   And I miss it.  So, now what.  First I had to make peace with what didn’t work and think it all over.  I couldn’t seem to move forward with ANY goals….fitness….anything until I looked over last year.  I was scared to peek at it because I was afraid of feeling like a failure.  So I started by asking this question….What am I proud of about last year?

I sat there with a spiral notebook and wrote out all of the things that I was proud of about and one thing, led to another thing, led to another.

My son had finished his Eagle Scout award and I had helped him get there.

I had rescued three families dearest photos after the flood.  I had helped encouraged readers through Ivy and Sprig.  I had continued hosting the boys Bible Study now in its 6th year.

I had gotten a mammogram, colonoscopy and glasses when my eyes weren’t working well.  I was taking care of myself, my family and my pets well! I had planned a really awesome Christmas and decorated, bought the gifts, wrapped and set it up so that family could connect and enjoy a festive season.  

What a feat!

Some were little and some were big but I was proud of so many things that had gone right and I rarely really stop to celebrate those things that I should be proud of.  Now, I was set up to look at where anything had left me disappointed or not worked out the way I wanted.  I had perspective.

I found it way, WAY easier to dig in to the adjustments and then set new goals after doing this exercise.  If you are feeling a little frustrated, lost, overwhelmed or troubled about your goals for 2018, try it.

Here’s what’s on the list for me:

1. I’ve got new running shoes!  I’m potentially going to be running a half marathon in June.  I’m researching them now with a friend and currently like the Thelma and Louise Half Marathon run in the Moab Desert on June 2.  Following Mile Posts Blog and her #IRUNTHISBODY.  I’ll let you know more on that soon, in case you want to join me!  I’m also taking Pilates now and love it.

2. Ivy and Sprig will continue!….the timing will look entirely different as I prepare for roadblocks and learn to be flexible. SURPRISE!  I have so much to learn that I will be trying some new things, you may hear from me a bunch or very little.  I am going to be playing with my own schedule and timing….just to keep it interesting for you and flat out going for me!

3. I’m giving up alcohol in January and dairy and gluten.  I’m about to do a food sensitivity test through

4. My second son is leaving! For college!….cheers and tears!  I will be planning to send him off well (#teachtocook, #dormorganization,#grownandflown) and support him this spring as he graduates.

5. Date nights!  My husband and I need some date nights to reconnect without the noise of stress, kids, work and the muck of life.  We are prioritizing date nights twice a month.  And planning a trip for just the two of us!  Any ideas?  Leave them in the comments!

6. Momming….yes it’s a verb, I’m coining it right now.  #IMOMWELL I will have active momming going on while I guide another boy to his Eagle Scout award and to become a new driver!  Yikes! That involves pretending to be relaxed and look at the scenery while he drives me around in Houston traffic.  Pray for my nerves!

7. Prayer!  Prayer works and connecting with God always benefits my mind, body and soul.  I end up choosing to line up with HIS priorities and that is a relaxing and peaceful way to live.  I’m kinder, gentler and generally NOT in a funk when I trust Him and pour out my heart to Him daily.  He keeps me focused and strong against the temptation to give up.  His dreams for me are even bigger than my own so I will be making daily time to meet Him in prayer.  So much to thank Him for.

There will be more but enough of this very long post after a long break.  I hope you are all set and planning to Win in the new year! 

“I press on…Philippians 3:12-16



16 thoughts on “NEW YEAR’S GOALS: What are you Proud of From Last Year?”

  1. Ivy, I love how you go about focusing on the positive because you have accomplished SO much good and now can look at the voids or weakness’s and focus on 2018! Thanks for all the suggestions I will be copying you my friend! Very inspired! XO

  2. A treat in my inbox! I missed you and I love the be where you are approach to goals! I just finished the book The Happier Hour, about a blogger who gives up drinking. Such an interesting read for a blogger, woman, anyone who socializes with people who don’t drink and of course the drinker. I also bought running shoes and am considering the LOVE half in Philly, I would love to read about your journey. xoxoox

  3. I have missed your blog and appreciate the amount of time it takes to keep up with writing. You do so many great things for your family and community, please don’t beat yourself up. Wow – you have a lot to feel good about 2017. I look forward to 2018! Book recommendation: New Morning Mercies by Paul David Tripp.

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